How to know if you’re dating the right person

How exactly do you know if you’re dating the right person? Not seeing their qualities right away may lead you to miss out on a lot of wonderful things in the future which is the last thing you’d ever want to experience.

The signs can be difficult to identify if you’ve never been in a long-term relationship before. Here are ways that may help in seeing whether the person you are dating is the one for you;

You tolerate each other’s interests

Sometimes you find a person who matches your interests but it doesn’t guarantee that you two won’t clash. If you do not share each other’s interests, you both are able to tolerate these things and activities and you also feel open to trying each other’s hobbies and activities for the sole sake of experience and not you are trying to fit in.

They offer you their undivided attention

The right partner will be completely present in your company, which is an important part of human connection that demonstrates value to that person. People are distracted by screens and notifications yet attention plays a big part in forming meaningful connections.

They like and value you as you are

There are people who like and value you as you are and don’t make you feel obligated to change. These people help you to become a better human being. If you’re dating such a person, then you may consider taking a setup to the next level.

They do little things for you

Sometimes it’s the small gestures that mean the most. You don’t have to spend a lot of money for them to know that you are thinking of them. It can be cooking dinner when they know you have had a long day, or an affectionate text. If you’re dating someone who does these things, it’s usually a good sign that they care for you deeply.

You don’t try to change them

Looking for areas of improvement is a red flag because when you want the person to change, you are not seeing their qualities but rather you are trying to mold them into your own vision of a perfect partner.

He gives you freedom without any restrictions

Freedom is required in order to pursue personal goals. It is essential for a healthy relationship to be in place.

If your partner understands the fact without expecting accountability for your every moment you can be sure you have found a keeper who understands the human need for partners to enjoy the freedom to be themselves.

They’re happier when you are happy

If the person you are dating happens to pull you down whenever you accomplish something or feel good, then that raises another red flag. Your partner should recognize your success and be happy whenever you succeed and not put their own wellbeing in the way of your happiness.


A good partner listens attentively to everything you have to say irrespective of how boring it might seem, it’s important for them to feel heard and listened to.

You both find it easier to adjust to each other’s lives

The person you are dating may be the right one for you when you two do not find it difficult to adjust in each other’s way of life. You both tolerate the way you eat, sleep and do simple tasks. You learn to appreciate the way you do things without feeling obligated by the fact that you are dating.

What does cuddling with him feel like?

A simple cuddle can tell you loads about the future of you both. The body does not lie and offers leads on how deep things are. If you’re together, listen to your feelings when he cuddles you. There’s a lot for you to learn in his embrace.

You are both excited to be with each other

You may not always get to feel this with the person you are dating, but if you happen to be hanging out with someone who shares the same feeling of excitement whenever you see each other, then it’s a sign of compatibility and yearning to enjoy life together.

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